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Communication & Preferences: Don’t Ignore This
..bears , bats , bonobo monkeys , flying foxes , wolves , ground squirrels and Tibetan macaques to name a few, they can’t communicate their preference as effectively as you and your man can. Effective communication will help you to quickly figure out what techniques your man adores and which ones he finds so-so.
- Some guys love it when you deep throat them, some don’t care for it at all.
- Some guys love the idea of you swallowing their load while others are turned off by it.
- Some guys fantasize about giving you a facial, but others find it pointless.
- Some guys want you to constantly spice up your blow jobs while others actually prefer you using the same few techniques.
- Some guys may adore you fondling their testicles during oral sex, while others will find it distracting.
The point I am trying to make is that your husband is going to adore some of the techniques from this blow job tutorial while he isn’t going to get much from other techniques and ideas. The key is talking to your man and learning his preferences.
What about you!
According to one study, up to half of all women between 16 and 25 have felt pressured into giving their man a blow job . In another study, 12% of young adult women had repeatedly engaged in oral sex and other sexual practices they disliked because their partner insisted on it . This isn’t right or fair, and it certainly doesn’t make for a great relationship. If you aren’t comfortable with doing something, then it’s important your man understands and respects this.
With this in mind, here are a few quick tips on communicating effectively with your man so that you can give him the best blow job of his life…
Getting feedback
Getting honest feedback on your blow job technique is vital if you want to improve. The best time to get feedback is right after his orgasm. At this time, he’ll be relaxed and very thankful and more likely to be open about his desires with you.
“You have a choice: I can deep throat you til you cum, or I can focus only on the tip of your cock. What would you prefer? And you can’t choose both.”
If you are stuck for blow job ideas, you can give him a choice of any of the techniques, tips, and ideas for sucking his cock throughout the rest of this guide.
Choking, gagging, and throwing up
If there is anything you don’t enjoy when giving your man a blow job, he needs to know, and he needs to respect your wishes. So if you don’t enjoy:
- His hands on the back of your head, pulling you in and out.
- Deep throating.
- The taste of his semen.
- Never-ending blow jobs.
What if he smells?
It’s not uncommon for guys to smell a little ripe after working out or a hard day go to these guys at work. If your guy hasn’t had a shower recently, it might not be too pleasant when you get down there. This is a communication issue!
If he likes bluntness, you might simply be able to say “Hey babe, wanna hop in the shower before I go down on you?” You may even suggest taking a shower together!